Gonna Give Up Fishkeeping :(

[tangokitty]

If I lived near you I'd come take care of your fish for you! Sorry about your tank and back.

 

[minxfishy]

Sorry to hear about your troubles Mel, but right now, your right, you and the kids come first. Im sure you can get back into the hobby once things have settled down more. Dont go far, you will be missed Good luck.

 

[MermaidMel]

Thanks guys I don't want to give up fishkeeping not by a long way, but right now this is the only choice I have because I don't even know where to start with the whole moving out splitting up thing and with the way he is being over it I think it's going to take a few weeks and the last thing I need is extra dependants i.e. the fishkies and their massive home. Plus if we're selling up I need to sort the soaken carpet out lol

 

[Leedsboi86]

Atleast you still have your Betta for now though ^.^

 

[kewskills]

Sad to hear Mel, but understandable, keep on the forum if you can, you make me laugh so much. Good luck girl

 

[shelaghfishface]

oh mel, im so sorry that you have to be going through all of this, its not pleasant i know, i have been there ,and i seriously hope it all gets a lots better for you soon, it will and it will get worse before it get better, but i have faith in you making it al ok,i would say the fish are the very least of your worries at the moment, your first prioerites(sp) ar staying sane and, keep your babies happy- as you know if you are stressed it rubs off on them,

im sure you will be on and off of here fish or no fish, and i send you all our love to get you through this really hard time, you have my MSN so if you want a natter you know where i am, if i can help you with anything at all just gimme a shout love,,

all my love shelagh xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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[SJ2K]

Cya

 

[MermaidMel]

oh mel, im so sorry that you have to be going through all of this, its not pleasant i know, i have been there ,and i seriously hope it all gets a lots better for you soon, it will and it will get worse before it get better, but i have faith in you making it al ok,i would say the fish are the very least of your worries at the moment, your first prioerites(sp) ar staying sane and, keep your babies happy- as you know if you are stressed it rubs off on them,

im sure you will be on and off of here fish or no fish, and i send you all our love to get you through this really hard time, you have my MSN so if you want a natter you know where i am, if i can help you with anything at all just gimme a shout love,,

all my love shelagh xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Thanks hun I am going to take you up on that and get some words of wisdom off you later chick xxxxx

 

[tibby25731]

Oh Mel. So sorry to hear about the problems. At least you still have a cheeky betta to keep you company! So you are not giving up all together, eh? And when you are settled, and better, you can have a big rethink about what fish to keep - that will be exciting! Things will start to look up soon, just hold your head high and keep smiling for the kids And stick around on here! xx

 

[rhostog]

So sorry you're having such a hard time Mel - hope you stick around cos you cheer me up. Things will get better, just hang in there.

 

[MermaidMel]

xxxxx

 

[ally86ozzy]

bettas r good fish 2 keep u company. good 2 keep him! good luck! -heart , ally86ozzy

 

[england]

dam mel i feel so sorry for you babs seriously if you was closer to me i would be over to help you take care of your tank maintanance

is there not anyone in Essex innit? who lives near to mel who can help her keep the one thing that seems to give her a mild dose of pleasure?
come on guys step up to the plate and give a fellow fish keeper a wee hand

Iam sure with time things will work out but in the meantime good luck and godspeed

 

[johno]

I had a tank crack and bust open during the night, years back (try waking up at 4am and trying to make sense of whats happend lol) I gave up after that for about 7 years... now im back at it


Anyway, hope everything goes well for you, whatever you chose to do.

 

[doresy]

Been away, just seen this. Take time out but don't go, eh?