I've met a few doctors who were business people before they were caregivers. I've met a couple who lacked empathy, for various reasons.
But I've dealt with the medical world a lot, starting with a childhood spent in oxygen tents and on hospital wards, through my own issues since, and through terrible illnesses that hit and sometimes killed friends and family. Almost every doctor I've met has been caring, professional and has tried his or her best to do the right thing. That haven't all been my favourite people, but I can say that about any group from plumbers to teachers.
I’m so glad you’ve had good experiences! I think it’s unfortunately that many doctors cannot admit when something is out of their expertise.
I have a confirmed CSF leak, it is extremely debilitating. I’ve had it since a major seizure on the 19th of July, and have been completely bedridden since the 24th. I have not slept in 48+ hours, I have not been able to keep foods, liquids, or meds down in about 5 days. My neurologist (who is amazing) has referred me for an outpatient epidural blood patch, however that may take a couple weeks.
I have gotten so much worse in the last two days, to the point where even rolling over in bed is making me pass out and throw up, and I’m constantly dry-heaving
My mom took me in to the ER to request IR to do a blood patch, or at least something to help me sleep.
The doctor not only proceeded to ignore my diagnosis of a CSF leak, he started questioning and disregarding my confirmed diagnoses of my other conditions. He tried to give me medication for nausea that could very well kill me and is documented in my chart that I cannot have, and argued when my mom wouldn’t let him.
He also started stating facts that were not even close to medically accurate, and discharged me with a diagnosis of “non-intractable episodic headache without cause” and the instructions to “try Tylenol and food”