The op of that thread never said who it was neither does it matter.
This isn't a hunt down.
It mattered only because you've argued that they've been given terrible advice for two pages now, yet have supplied no evidence that they were given terrible advice at all. So you can rant away, but you're making a lot of assumptions about the people and advice given here based on it, and won't show it. So it's a strawman argument now, you're just tearing down a paper tiger, not debating actual advice given.
I just think it shouldn't happen unless for a specific reason like diseases and so on...
You're allowed to have that opinion, and share it! But you don't get to dictate what advice others give either. That's the nature of a forum, that we can all share our views. There isn't a set script to follow here, it's a loose collection of people in the hobby who all have their own views and ways of doing things, and they often offer different kinds of advice in a thread. That's a good thing, and it's up to the poster what info they want to use, to ask more questions if they're confused, and what advice they plan to take, or leave.
It usually creates more problems than help.
I'd be scared myself of doing a 90% much less telling someone else to do it.
I'm sure some people do insane volumes like 75%
But then again their water specs must be very close to their tap.
Also I'm not a prime promoter and I'm old school...
Your approach to fishkeeping isn't the only way, and you're allowed to give your own perspective and advice. But you don't get to dismiss and attack others methods without without supplying evidence. Saying that volumes of 75% are insane and do more harm than good - any evidence for that claim? You said
I really think people should just explain things a little better to newcomers or provide sources of information when possible if it can be damaging to their tank.
So please, provide a source of information that routinely changing 75% of a tank's water volume does more harm than good, and is insane.
Don't stress out the fish and they'll always be fine.
Well that's just not true either. Stress is a big killer for fish, sure, but ammonia toxicity, parasitic worms, bacterial infections, a broken tank heater that won't switch off etc etc will still kill fish if no action is taken. There are plenty of things that can go wrong in an aquarium that are unrelated to stress.
You guys have to remember that ALL of us have killed fish.
And that people will do stupid things when they're worried about something.
Especially someone who's new to the hobby
Very true, I've often said the same myself, that I don't think there's a fish keeper alive who hasn't made a mistake at some point that proved fatal to a fish. It's a sad part of the hobby, and especially common for someone brand new to the hobby if they've been mis-sold fish or given bad advice by a store, like adding a full stocking a week after buying the tank. When someone new to the hobby posts, I see people go above and beyond to try to help.
I really think people should just explain things a little better to newcomers or provide sources of information when possible if it can be damaging to their tank.
People explain things the best that they can. You also have to bear in mind the balance between giving as much detail and advice as possible, and not bombarding someone - especially a beginner - with information overload and overwhelming them. Trying to balance giving the person as much clear info as possible in a way they can understand, while not overwhelming them with jargon or details that aren't relevant to the topic at hand is a difficult balance, and some are better at it than others. But they're still taking time out of their day to give that advice because they're trying to help.
You can't dictate how others post. But you are certainly allowed to give advice to posters yourself! If you dislike the advice often given here, then by all means, supply evidence for why we're wrong and debate the approach without dictating what others are allowed to say.
Because if it was a personal friend I'm sure any of you would go beyond and above to make sure your friend did it right instead of killing his/her fish
I'd give a personal friend the same advice I give here, because I only give advice that I believe is in the best welfare of the fish and gives them the best chance of survival. The same courses of action I'd follow myself, if I were in their shoes, and I think others do the same. I don't think anyone is giving bad advice maliciously. Of course some people make mistakes and are wrong about something at some point, but that's the beauty of an open forum, because others can politely correct them, or give their own advice, saying they disagree and why. We all learn from those examples. As long as it remains civil and family friendly, haven't seen that cause a problem.