Perhaps if we you guys hold a small get together now? And then we plan a big one when people can write it down and make sure its clear, I reckon if we planned enough in the future we would get a lot

lol, not really
! I live in Arizona and that's either one long drive or that's one long flight from Arizona to England. "yes I know vehicles can't drive into the ocean"...
aww....so lucky...i'm canadian...so can't come...but hope you guys have fun!