Fishiemang
Fish Crazy
Have we checked.for.ammonia?
I have tanks that ain't had a "water change" in years. My 38 gallon bowfront for almost 3 now. It is also overstocked with livebearers crappin out kiddos. I use a Marineland Penguin 200 for a filter. Ain't cleaned the sponge for a while now. When fish disappear, I simply let nature do what it do. The snails go to town on the carcasses. I feed this tank maybe once every second or third day too...depending on my memory. This is my "show" tank in my living room. Heavily planted as well. No major die off in there. I know at one point there musta been high ammonia, because I noticed some red gill action for a few days, but that cleared itself up.
I doubt the neglect you feel you committed contributed to the issue. There was a combination of things that have got ya.
First: Stop feeding the tank. They will be fine for a while.
Next, you can do several small water changes every few hours, which will allow the fish to slowly acclimate to the new conditions, to avoid shocking them. I've done that before to try saving a tank. It worked. Several 15% or so changes every 3 hours give or take and get that water changed over.
Get that filter running to get that water churning. Your issue may very well be low oxygenation due to the filter being down. Especially if the fish are swimming towards the surface.
I have tanks that ain't had a "water change" in years. My 38 gallon bowfront for almost 3 now. It is also overstocked with livebearers crappin out kiddos. I use a Marineland Penguin 200 for a filter. Ain't cleaned the sponge for a while now. When fish disappear, I simply let nature do what it do. The snails go to town on the carcasses. I feed this tank maybe once every second or third day too...depending on my memory. This is my "show" tank in my living room. Heavily planted as well. No major die off in there. I know at one point there musta been high ammonia, because I noticed some red gill action for a few days, but that cleared itself up.
I doubt the neglect you feel you committed contributed to the issue. There was a combination of things that have got ya.
First: Stop feeding the tank. They will be fine for a while.
Next, you can do several small water changes every few hours, which will allow the fish to slowly acclimate to the new conditions, to avoid shocking them. I've done that before to try saving a tank. It worked. Several 15% or so changes every 3 hours give or take and get that water changed over.
Get that filter running to get that water churning. Your issue may very well be low oxygenation due to the filter being down. Especially if the fish are swimming towards the surface.
I'm sorry for being away, depression sucks! But I always come back from it

Feels a bit mean, but they were doing that job well. But there are still way too many young fish in there, most too small to go to the store yet. I'll put as many young as I can into my grow out tank and see if dad is willing to part with some of his adult livebearers to get this tank under control. I imagine he'll be more willing to let them go after this, and luckily my LFS is great and will take them.
It's okay though since I napped for way too long yesterday. Gonna have a long relaxing shower now, then some coffee and start my day. Madam here will be wanting a nice long walk soon
It was horrible to lose ten fish in two days, but given how many fish are in there and something went wrong enough to kill that many fish that fast, it's pretty remarkable I haven't lost more. Fingers crossed the crisis has passed! 
No wonder fish started dropping. That only left a tiny little internal filter on an overstocked, 57 gallon tank which I only really added for oxygenation/flow reasons, not to handle that bioload!