The reference to blushing will be about the splash of red around the gills. If I must guess, which it seems that I must, I would guess it is a molly. The body shape is too long to be a platy and a bit short and compact to be a swordtail. The hint about sex changes on demand would lead me down the swordtail path because I have often heard equally silly statements about swordtails by " knowledgeable salesmen" but it looks too robust for a sword. The slight upturn of the mouth screams molly at me but it is probably my day to be wrong completely. I really like the look of her, whatever she may be.