Thanks Jay.
We had canned asparagus when I was young, yuck! Then later we had fresh. My dad carefully cut off the "scales" along the stems & broke or cut off the woody ends. It was often grown in sandy soil so I can understand there might be grit. But in all my adulthood, I don't bother with "scale removal" & have very rarely had any grit at all. I think he may have pared the stems a bit too, meh, too much bother for little return, lol.
I just bend the stems working my way to the tip until it breaks easily, pretty fast & easy for 2 slightly piggy servings. We're not quite into really cheap asparagus season (closer to Easter) but I couldn't resist. $2.50/lb vs off season $5-7+...but soon lots less. Our "local season" might be a bit earlier than for some. We get it from south of us & later northward. Less expensive produce is 1 of the few perks of living here...& the weather of course, lol