If you kink or clamp the airline, you put back pressure on the diaphragm inside the pump and it will pop sooner. Then you will have to replace the diaphragms.
There are two ways to reduce the amount of air from an air pump.
1) There is a small screw in the side of the pump that holds the air chamber to the pump case. If you loosen that screw a small amount, the pump will produce less air.
2) Get a T-piece and tap, and a 12 inch length of airline. Put the T-piece in the airline a couple of inches from the pump outlet. Attach the current airline with airstone to one end of the T-piece, and attach the 12 inch length of airline to the 3rd point on the T-piece. Put the tap on the end of the short 12 inch length of tubing and use the tap to control the amount of air coming out of the airstone.