Sorry to hear about the issues you are facing currently. It's a shame how much impact things like that have on day-to-day activities inlcuding our aquariums.
A quick thought on your Staghorn algae issue. I wonder if the root cause may not be one of the more common ones, like lighting, Co2, etc. I'm taking a shot in the dark here and wondering if the wood is the cause of the Staghorn. Since the wood is decaying now, you will have quite a lot of decaying material/nutrients accumulating and being used up by anything and everything in the tank, including alage. Of course, you know your tank better than anyone else, so there is a high chance it's something else, but it could be a possibility. Ive just found that the tanks I set up with wood seem to have more issues than without
Also, do you have any terrestrial plants like peace lilies or pothos that could be used in the tank? I know they aren't the main things we associate aquariums with, but they have worked wonders for me in newer setups, especially in regard to balancing things out. Another would be floaters, but it's clear that your filter outflows put floating plants out of the equation