Bettas are really bad tank mates for a gourami. Btw, I looked up "blue gourami" and discovered that there are two species that go by that same common name, most usually Trichogaster trichopterus, also known as "Three-spot gourami".
T.trichopterus is a good community fish that grows to about 4" long (not including tail). He'd be ideal with tetras, danios, most kinds of barb (except tiger barbs), rasboras, pencilfish, corys, dwarf plecs... and of course, a female T.trichopterus. Make sure it is a female however, as they'll fight. T.trichopterus is absolutely fine on his own, however - gouramis are certainly not schooling fish.
Here's a few species you might want to look at as tank-mates:
Neons
Cardinal tetras
Black neon tetras
False rummy-nosed tetras
Head-and-tail-light tetras
Zebra danios
Cherry barbs
Gold barbs
Harlequin rasboras
White Cloud Mountain minnows
Beckford's pencilfish
Dwarf coryadoras catfish
Oto catfish (otocinclus)
Bristlenosed plec (ancistrus)
Most are schooling fish, so you need to be looking at at least 6 of the type you want, and don't forget to check their estimated adult size to make sure they'll fit in.