Wow! I've read and re-read what Dave wrote four times now and the thread Aaron linked and all I can say is you guys are a lot smarter than me.
I understand that when I think I am testing Kh I may be testing something else. I understand that something other than CO2 may be causing my Kh to drop (in the absence of crushed coral in my filter.) I agree that plants may be perfectly fine with a "Kh" of zero. In fact, my plants were doing great with a Kh of zero and are doing very well with a Kh of 5. To the best of my knowledge, the only thing I changed when my"Kh" dropped to zero was to add crushed coral to the filter. Hmmm? I'm not sure my work addled mine can handle the addition of trying to understand the chemistry right now. So let me explain what I'm trying to achieve. Maybe I'm going after the wrong thing.
As a newb, I took it to heart when I read that a Ph swing of more than .2 would be fatal to fish. Now my tap water has a Ph of 8.4. So I became very concerned about doing water changes with tap water as the Ph of my tanks slowly dropped over time. So I went and bought RO water and calculated how much to mix with my tap to keep the tank Ph from moving more than .2. Even with that care, I was having occasional fish loss with water changes (I use Prime in measured amounts to treat new tap water) and I was being careful to keep the incoming water temp about 4 degrees less than the tank temp.
Then I started learning about total dissolved solids, Kh and Gh, and read some speculation that it wasn't a Ph swing that hurt fish but a total dissolved solids swing and particularly Kh swings. Note I recognized that it was speculation. Started testing for "Kh" and Gh and realized that my tank Kh had dropped to 0 and that I was putting in 3 Kh water. So I added crushed coral to my filters and my "Kh" in the non-CO2 tanks remains at either 3 or 4. I'm not sure it has stabilized yet in the CO2 tank but the change is gradual (I am becoming concerned though by adding lower Kh water to it.)
Interestingly, my occasional fish loss has stopped on water changes once I started matching the Kh of the incoming water to the existing water. I don't even try to match Ph anymore. I measure it out of curiosity and as an indication of what is happening to my "Kh". Anymore I find test results interesting (I don't even try to measure ppm on my CO2 tank) but I really go by are the fish and plants happy and minimal algae problems. If so, I don't worry about the tests too much.
If I'm missing something please let me know. I appreciate the education.