I see you,
@Chickadee and I raise you a million projects... I retired (early) almost 6 years ago now. I thought I'd have more time, but somehow, the vacuum I expected was filled with the ability to do things my working hours either didn't allow, or didn't allow me to savour. I had tanks and enjoyed them, but I had to unlearn a little efficiency, and relearn just straight up enjoyment.
I had always done poorly with planted tanks. I had a set group of plants that thrived here, and that was that - unchanging. With retirement, I've been able to experiment a bit, and give more time to learning that side of the hobby. It's starting to bear fruit, and I'm becoming more and more pleased at what is happening in my tanks. I've slowly added trick after trick, to see what works.
We give and get a lot of advice here, and sometimes we lose track of the simple fact that the environment in tank A in country B can be radically different from tank C in country D, even if outwardly, they're the same. We may report the same water hardness and pH, but are those parts per million we quote the same minerals? I have 85 of something in my water, and my plants like it. If you have even a slightly different chemistry there, different plants sometimes thrive.
You'll find clashes of opinion here, different systems, crazy ideas and scientifically tested ones. We end up at opposites sometimes, but please bear with us as there are many ways to the same result. There are also plans and ideas that aren't good ones, and there you have to figure it out.