Ooopsie

[ibbledibble]

yes, and i have done

spoke to a few ppl at my lfs and they said it would be fine

theyre all getting along well

please get a divider, it may be fine now but it won't last

i had a male in with my females by mistake (he was supposed to be a girl too) and i had several deaths from it before i realized

either he will kill some of the girls if they are not up for spawning or they will kill him for pestering them, or the girls will kill each other out of jealousy and possessiveness over him

LFS staff will often tell you anything to make a sale, and most of them don't know the facts anyway!

i'm sorry if i was one of the people who you thought was rude to you, it wasn't intended that way and to be perfectly honest i think you have been a bit rude in some of your posts yourself. but as others have said it can be difficult to convey tone in a typed message. all i was trying to do was help as i'm sure you would not want either dave, or any of your girls to come to any harm.

now this sounds a bit rude too, sorry but i'm exhausted and can't think of a better way to phrase things right now

 

[azulfire24]

look dont feel bad i didnt know about keeping them seperated ither at first... my lfs just said if it was a big tank and it was heavily planted it would be ok..and my gig fat blue girl actually beat the crap out of my ct male hes never looked the same..
dost lose heart every body has screwed up at some point,, just not every one admits it.......................