Keep it friendly people. Don't make me hand out flaming warnings. 
You've been doing well, just keep it up. 
I<3Oscars-and-bettas - All I can say is: You came to the fish forum. You asked for advice. Experienced people are giving you advice. It may not be what you want to hear, but trust me, it's the best for the fish. These people have helped countless others, and saved other people's fish. They aren't going to mislead you.
There are two options now:
1. Listen to them, take it in, and act on it for the better of the fish.
2. Don't listen to them. In which case I might as well close this thread now.
I hope you'll take the first option. They aren't trying to abuse you, or flame you, or anything. You have to realize we have lots of posts like this, and we get lots of people who just want to wind people up. So perhaps we are a little hasty to size people up, I don't know. But at the end of the day, we want what's best for the fish. And that's why we're here.
Good luck with your tank.
You've been doing well, just keep it up. I<3Oscars-and-bettas - All I can say is: You came to the fish forum. You asked for advice. Experienced people are giving you advice. It may not be what you want to hear, but trust me, it's the best for the fish. These people have helped countless others, and saved other people's fish. They aren't going to mislead you.
There are two options now:
1. Listen to them, take it in, and act on it for the better of the fish.
2. Don't listen to them. In which case I might as well close this thread now.
I hope you'll take the first option.
They aren't trying to abuse you, or flame you, or anything. You have to realize we have lots of posts like this, and we get lots of people who just want to wind people up. So perhaps we are a little hasty to size people up, I don't know. But at the end of the day, we want what's best for the fish. And that's why we're here. Good luck with your tank.
