MermaidMel
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You'll do just fine Mel. I had to have back surgery in November of 2006. My problem is mostly genetic, all most all of my family has the same problem, mine just developed early (I'm 27), and more acute. I have degenerative arthritis in my spine (sounds worse than it is) and the L5 disc was grossly over-sized and herniated (in fact the surgeon said the disc was the largest he'd ever seen), top that off with the channel the sciatic nerve runs through was congenitally narrowed, I was in really bad shape before the surgery. I had a neurosurgeon do the surgery because of the nerve issues (the same one that did my mom's surgery). He decided the best course was to fuse L4/5, remove the disc, and widen the channel the sciatic runs through, he harvested bone from my hip for the fusing
, plus used rods and screws to hold everything together. Needless to say I was pretty terrified, but I was in so much pain I was willing to do anything to make it stop. And I'm happy to say I don't regret it a bit. I remember waking up from surgery flat on my stomach and the first thing I said was "Oh my God, the pain is gone!". I can honestly say the pain from surgery/recovery was a breeze compared to how I was before. Even the nurse staff was impressed, they had to make me stay in bed and not over do it. I was just so excited to be free from the nerve pain that it couldn't lay still.
Almost two years out I'm a new person. I've had back problems since I was 12 years old, and can now do just about anything I want without having to worry if my back can handle it. I did experience phantom nerve pains for the first six months or so, but the surgeon said that was normal, and it did go away. I mostly noticied it if I wore myself out. Because part of my back is fused, there are certain ways I can't bend anymore, but it's easy to work around. I also know when a storm is coming (the only time my back hurts), and when its very very cold I can feel where the metal is. It doesn't hurt, and it's kind of hard to explain, but I've found other people have the same thing.
A couple of suggestions for after the surgery. Walking is the best thing you can do for yourself, just don't over do it. Listen to your body, if it feels tired rest, if not you'll regret it later. Get one of those extended claw things to pick up stuff off the floor, your back won't want to bend forward for the first couple of weeks. Get loose soft waisted pants to wear, your incision will thank you. Try not to get frustrated with how weak you are at first, your body has been through a lot, even if your brain insists that because the pain is gone you need to move move move.This may sound strange, but check out your bathroom, are there areas you can grip to assist in sitting and getting up from the toilet? Most people don't think of that, but your muscles have to recover, and the simplest (and necessary) things can take more effort, and longer so don't wait until the last minute.
If you have any more questions let me know.![]()
What a great post, thank you for taking the time. I've heard nothing but good things from people who've had back operations, it's so encouraging. I have funnily enough enquired today who in my family could lend me a gripper, so that's good. I have my grandfather's walking stick here so I can use that to get up from a seated position I guess.
Don't worry, I won't over do anything, I am only sad because I won't be able to lift my baby up, he's over 2yrs old now but I still love to pick him up. Oh and not being able to drive for 6 weeks to LFS is a real bummer lol!
My mum has already said she'll take 2 weeks off and this is the one time I am glad my husband works from home!! My dad is around day time too, so I'll have lots of help.
My uncle is a neuro-surgeon, he knows my ortho-surgeon and they've decided between them the best way to do the surgery, so I feel very well cared for.
Thanks again!