Does the red tail black shark seem particularly aggressive or boisterous? If you have fish who are extremely active they may be scaring the gourami, although mine get along fine with my long fin zebra danios. They do not like bright light or strong water currents, does this apply to your tank?
the Red Tail Black shark only chases him rarely, and when he does its only for a second or two. Generally they leave eachother alone. the water current is not too strong, but the light is bright. The only thing about that is I almost always leave the light off.
I think the most likely problem is my Red Tail Black shark, but I am moving him when he grows larger.
edit:
Just read that pearls are labyrinth fish. I thought that him swimming only at the surface at night was a bad sign ^^'
But I know they don't do well with aggressive fish, but, can they actually die if they are?