i apologise, i thought i read they had passed away recently and your last comment jus seemed out of place when talkin about someone who has just dieds fish tank.
No worries.....

.......I could perhaps have posted the original thread in a more respectful way with hindsight.
.....I was more amused at FishKing's response.....
yea im not sure what hes talking about.
i jus didnt want you going bouncing into her house all excited (like everyone would be) to have her standing there looking gutted.
after all, she may want it out the way but it will still remind her of her husband and probably the fun he had.
i probably could of worded my post better too.