Thank you everyone, thank you adam, for one thats been on the recieving end of a blast or 2 of mine I was glad to read your post, this kid had been given the chance and I had waited all day not to mention the Pm(s) I recieved regarding this thread asking for my attention and one even asked for him to be blasted, trust me, those that know me know I've been tame to him as it warrents it, he's not some dirt bag that was described above by sparklefuzz (cute sn btw) he does care about his fish but needs to be shaken up some and thats where I come in, I know there are tons of folks that will hold his hand and be kind and nice and so it should be that way,BUT when they give advice and it's ignored or not taken into account that they might know more or expierenced more thats where I step in and shake the person up.
I'm a mother first and formost I have 2 children under 12 and see them make their own mistakes and I step back and let them fall but when they do the same thing over and over again and never learn, I step in, i'm a strict mother and that carries over into many other aspects of my life and hobbies, maybe it should maybe it shouldnt but thats the way it is, I'm not going to appologize for trying to educate someone that seems to repeat screw ups time and time again.
99% of the time I'll read a thread and as it progresses I'll keep up with it and wont even post, I let the many other extremely knowledgable people handle it but when ASKED to step in I do which has happened many times. I would have never known about this guy and his problems if not being asked to post, I dont go to other areas much at all so if he wants my help, he can ask for it.
I'm not here to hand hold and kiss a**,
I'm here to keep fish alive....