hey miss dib dabs welcome back have not seen you for a bit i guess you been bizzy,,,,,,,,,,, and thanks for the info on how the male will be with the females i may try it stange at the moment the male seem not in to the female hes started make nests again but his color is normal and hes not biting or going after the female its been like this after i changed the water a few days ago do male like some females better?