The idea of the baking soda (sodium bicarbonate aka bicarb) is that it, like any number of things, its something to help add a little optimization to this "bacterial growing soup" as I've been calling it. It "buffers" the water. Sodium bicarbonate is one of the bicarbonate salts that's very soluble in water, so the HCO3- ions separate off and are quite available to quickly combine with any H+ ions (protons) to help the overall system resist moving in the acid direction. When cycling, the end product of nitrification includes a certain percentage of nitric acid which is what's driving things in the acid direction in the first place.
Baking soda can create very quick changes to the water chemistry. It will add to the buffering (also called total alkalinity (a word meaning buffering, confusingly not the same as the work alkaline, referring to a subset of the bases!)) and will, after some delay also increase the pH to a point. Since it makes quick moves and doesn't bother the bacteria, its great for fishless cyclers, but its not as desirable for when you have fish, something to keep in mind. All this water will go down the drain prior to getting fish. If we have to raise pH after the fish are in there then we'll choose to use crushed coral in bags in the filter because that will raise pH much, much more slowly and will last much, much longer. But that's not something we'd like to have to do, so its a decision only arrived at if one has to.
I know you don't need all this detail, I'm just being complete cause lots of people read these sometimes. Back to the bacterial optimizations then. Besides a pH of 8.0 to 8.4 being fastest and us wanting it not to go too far down in the 6's, there's the temp, ideally 84F/29C and we'd like our water to have some minerals in it, particularly some of the calcium one gets with some hardness (you've apparently got that) and the bacteria will also use a little trace iron of which there will probably be plenty since you're going to have to feed those plants.
Speaking of those nice plants. You're probably going to want to start with only 4 hours of your lights on, perhaps 2 each, morning and evening when you're there. Gradually later, you'll increase that amount but you don't want algae and all the ammonia from fishless cycling is going to encourage it. You're going to want to investigate fertilization and dosing of carbon.
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