@tombomb I think you should lighten up, orange shark is only 15 and maybe doesn't have the experience you do at the age of what 29. If you want to be constructive help him out, dont ridicule him otherwise he'll do what he wants anyway. (which it looks like he is doing)
Orange shark: cycling with fish does without a doubt harm the fish, and patience is what is needed here, but in saying that it doesn't mean you cant do it, (although we would all reccomend that you dont). However if you are going to do it, be prepared that you'll maybe lose some fish and possibly cause more problems for the tank and put yourself back to square one, just keep the water changes up, do like 50% everyday to reduce the amount of amonia in the tank as much as possible until the filter can catch up, maybe use some supplements that boost your biological filter, like stress coat and stress zyme they will also help reduce the stress for the fish. Certain fish just wont cope with a fishless cycle and some others are a lot more hardy. Also remember not to clean the filter with tap water.
Just out of curiousity, how did you start your cycle, you dont want to be adding too much amonia for the filter handle straight away that might be the reason for it taking so long. When I did my cycle I added fish flakes every day for the first three days. the amonia slowly built up once the food began to rot and eventually after two weeks the tank was cycled,. After that you can build the stocking up in your tank gradually so the filter can cope.
chish