I agree with Assaye. Our tropical fish hobby now has a wonderful process called Fishless Cycling that has become a core skill for many beginners to learn and it simply takes this period of exposing the animals to permanently damaging poisons out of the picture. Its a wonderful advance, but as with anything new, it can take many decades for it to work itself into the lore of the hobby and be accepted. Our beginners section tries to help make this happen.
You seem like possibly a perfect candidate for fishless cycling because you are obviously knowledgeable about keeping pets that have requirements outside the normal and for which you have to study up and learn different kinds of skills (I wouldn't know the first thing about about creating a healthy environment for a gecko or bearded dragon!

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The top 3 articles to get your questions up to speed are in the Beginners Resource Center, the Nitrogen Cycle, the Fishless Cycle and the Fish-In Cycling Situation.. to start to have some vocabulary to discuss the topic, which is larger than the articles themselves.
There's a neat timing thing we find here in the beginners section that if you get a fishless cycle going in your first tank, there is supposedly a long boring wait for the bacteria to grow in the biofilter, but it turns out to be just about the right amount of time to have a bunch of great learning interactions with the members here about other starter topics, not least of which is the whole topic you started with, that of what types of fish to stock your tank with, what sort of community you can build, given the water you are forced to have by the happenstance of where you live and what comes out of the tap! Basing your community on the foundation of what tap water chemistry you've been given is an important way to start.
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