I'm trying to think who in their right mind would feed goldfish to puffers and scats... one eats shelled invertebrates the other eats plants and organic detritus. Not one of them normally eats fish! Marine fish are known to get sick when fed goldfish (read Bob Fenner and others on the topic) so it's a STUPID thing to do as well as pointless. Scats will eat anything of course, but they mostly take crumbs from around the feeding activity of other fish. When I kept them with archers, they were always stealing the crickets the archers the archers had knocked in the water! But a healthy scat is a scat that's eating greens morning, noon, and night.
Anyway, I've kept 1 archer with 4 monos, 1 silver scat, and 3 shark catfish and had no problems. I know people who have had problems with small groups of monos though. Depends on the tank. I kept mine in a 200 gallon system, so all the fish had plenty of space.
I'm amazed by the sizes you're reporting! Wild monos and scats certainly get big, but aquarium specimens tend to stay fairly small. 15 cm long seems to going rate for monos, and maybe 20 cm for scats. A 15-inch scat is about 40 cm by my reckoning, and not many specimens get that size even in the wild!
To answer your question though, monos tend to be more pushy than scats. Scats are mostly greedy rather than aggressive, and so while they may annoy other fish, it's because they're more "in your face" at feeding time. Monos can be territorial, it seems, and may form pairs under certain conditions (see Schaefer in the Aqualog book). Never seen this myself, but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen!
Regardless, a 70 gallon tank is borderline for either. If you possibly can, learn to recognise Monodactylus kottelati and Selenotoca papuensis; both are "dwarf" species and you could keep large groups in a 70 gallon tank side-stepping any potential problems with behaviour.
Cheers, Neale