Also, I'm not sure what color morph of the honeys you have but the males willd evelop a blue-black coloration when in breeding condition and the females are wider when viewed from above. With young fish, your best bet is to compare the birghtest and dullest (but healthy) fish. The brightest are likely to be male. Similarly, fish with slightly pointier dorals, as opposed to rounded edges, are usualy male. You can't realy sex honeys accurately until they are mature.