Ok ... I can't stand the look on my son's face when I tell him we are another day not ready for fish.
I have since changed the filter did a few 10% water changes and borrowed some gravel and water from a friend up the street that looked pretty dirty. I added the water behind the filter and placed the gravel in cheesecloth and dunked it like a tea bag and let it sit on the bottom and still, 3 days later, the ammonia just isn't budging. I haven't seen any nitrites and the last I checked, several days ago, there were no nitrates.
I am beginning to think my tank is sterile or there's something killing off any or all bacteria.
The pH is 7.2 and the temp is 78. I have an air stone, 3 decorations and some fake plants.
It's killing me and more so my son.
Is this unusual?
Any more advice?