Hi elope welcome to the forum
Just wanted to double check how you are cycling your tank - are you using fish or is it a fishess cycle where you add liquid ammonia?
With the stocking, have you thought about a Rainbow Shark? They are slightly smaller than Red Tails and have red on all their fins rather than just the rail they are also slightly more peaceful. Ideally though you want to have a 4 foot tank for these red and black sharks - how realistic is the upgrade in the future?
I am also wary of advising people to stock tanks with plans to upgrade in the future. I started out like that but my plans developed slower than planned which meant the fish I had in my three foot at the time had to be rehomed because my six foot took about 18 months longer to get. My advice on this would be to get fish now that will thrive in a bigger tank with bigger fish should that be the route you take. I would also wait right now for a few of the species you want to get, I would do this kind of tank for now.
3 Dwarf Gourami - 1 male 2 female (males have long flowing dorsal fins, females have small semi circular dorsal fins)
12 Harlequin Rasbora
1 Rainbow Shark (though a Red Tail Shark may be ok on the very minimum size for it and the prospect of a larger tank at some point in the future)
I left the Tiger Barbs out as you need to keep them in a much bigger school than is possible in this tank, in low numbers they are very boisterous and nippy and they do bother other fish... where as if you keep them in a group of 12-15+ they school together better and they dont nip other fish, sometimes each other but mainly they will spend their time trying to be the most dominant in the school. So they are distracted from the other fish.
I have suggested 12 rather than 5 Harlequins as in a larger school you will see they are much more active and their colours will be better for the same reasons as the tiger barbs although they are not as nippy but a larger school will help keep them interested in each other where as in a group of 5 one will become the dominant one and the rest will just follow in much duller colouration. Although 5-6 is the minimum recommended number for schools always aim for 10, a good rule to live by is minimum standards = minimum expectations which is really true in fish keeping. We have a chance to keep fish that will really thrive in our tanks and its often through changes like cutting down the number of species to up the numbers of one species is a great example of that.
I also left out the Swordtails - main reason was to add in the Dwarf Gourami females, but also because it then gives the Gourami the whole of the top of the tank where as you could have had a lone Dwarf Gourami nipping at the male Swordtails sword as they will both inhabit the upper quarter of the tank. These would also be a prime candidate to include in a larger tank.
For example if you were to upgrade to a 240 liter tank which is sort of the next off the shelf tank size your stocking list could be something like
3 Dwarf Gourami - 1 male 2 female
3 Sword Tails - 1 male 2 females (you have enough fish in the tank to deal with the population control)
15 Tiger Barbs
12 Harlequin Rasbora
1 Rainbow Shark
Hope thats helped
Wills