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Sorry to hear it Julie.
Better luck next time. It WILL happen.
BTW, if something is wiggling in my mouth, I'd gag.

Better luck next time. It WILL happen.
BTW, if something is wiggling in my mouth, I'd gag.
The father might feel threatened, but I know that isn't the case with mine... unless he's paranoid.
They have spawned 4 or 5 times and he does seem to hold a little longer each time.
If he'd just hold them a few more days the babies might make it outside his mouth. I guess stripping the eggs like you do with cichlids might be possible, but I don't have the guts to do that. 
It IS possible, you need to pry his mouth open and flush it with water, I dunno if I'm brave enough either.
good luck trying again, third times the charm
Maybe he'll do it for a longer bit next time. It takes men awhile to figure out diapering babies after all so I'd give your guy another chance with the parenting skills. Wow, he must be some fantastic lover your fishy
, she's zoned right out afterwards.