My filter makes quite a bit of water movement on the surface and we are running an airpump. with 2 round airstones. I had been feeding flakes in the beginning and I've switched to brine shrimp, bloodworms, or a vegetable, NOT left in the tank, I let them nibble for a min and take it out. I also switched to once a day when the nitrites spiked...with the ammonia in my tap I didn't want to add or leave anything extra in the water.
My tests today were interesting...my ammonia was at 0. The nitrites are still overly high we haven't stopped changing the water. It's alot of work but eventually they have to go down right? I was thinking of moving the platies into a 10 gallon that I'm going to buy today. It will be uncycled but for the first week I can control the ammonia levels with water changes. That should give some time for the nitrites to start lowering in the 46.
I'll keep doing small water changes since it'll add ammonia back that's in my tap. If I start seeing uncontrollable ammonia in the 10g tank I can move them back, but it will be easier to keep the water healthier for them in a smaller tank. This can't last much longer. The levels will start falling, I think if I can leave the nitrites in there instead of constantly having the change it out we would see some better results.
It feels like we keep dosing ammonia and never give the bacteria a chance to deal with the nitrites. I'll figure it out.
Really appreciate the responses from everyone!