I do have a female in my tank, but I told them: give me 1 male and 1 female and if you're not 100% sure just give me oneTo me, the central tank is all male, and that left-hand tank furthest-back gourami is a female (post #2).
Below are a couple of clips of my old wild-type female honey. I know mine was a female because I woke up one day to loads of eggs scattered across the tank and a half-hearted attempt at a bubble nest after I removed the male days before
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Yes! One of my new males (Mango) has a really orange tail (and seems like he is a bully, maybe cuz he is the dominant male), and my female (Sol) has the abdomen line and her fins have this orange edgeThe gouramis in the video are all of the yellow variety. When I had these fish the yellow variety was the most common in shops, with most not stocking the wild colour. I found that males usually had orange tails and rear part of the body while females did not. Females often had orange edges to the fins but not the whole tail and part of the body.