ALW
What works for one may not work for another!
For other fish what about a pair of Cockatoo Cichlids. They will be fin with the other fish you intended to go into the tank. I would get at least 15 Tetras and 15 Harlequins. The best way to wash sand is to pour X amount (depends on how much sand you have, if its only a small bag then pour all of it in. If its a large bag then about 1/3) it to a bucket and then fill the bucket with warm water, stir arround so the water becomes murky, let the sand fall to the bottom and then pur out the water, refill the bucket again, do this about 3 times per X amount of sand. The sand should then be placed into the tank. As for cleaning the sand get a gravel cleaner and do the same as you would for gravel, just remmember to put the sand that was sucked up form the cleaner back into the tank!