I don't think there's any problem here. I don't think coco and hubby -want- nitrates per se. I think they are just trying to understand the new thing of using test kits to give them feedback about their water. Way back when they arrived they mentioned having had successful tanks before but wanted to learn about test kits and improve their understanding of how to use the numbers.
I think any assumptions they have about what the numbers should be comes from trying to interpret the various bits of advice we've posted for them here and that probably we just need to work a bit more on nitrate(NO3). (To start this discussion I should mention to coco that nitrate being zero would be just great for fish but they tolerate it ok, its not a bad toxin like ammonia or nitrite. For rdd and om47 I should mention that I believe coco did a great fishless cycle and is in good shape.)
I also seem to remember that coco had an unusual water source, but admit I've forgotten the details. Coco, let us know the level of nitrate(NO3) in particular and the other parameters of your -source- water (not tank water.)
Because everyone's source water might vary, we don't usually set any hard numbers on what the high limit of Nitrate(NO3) should be, but instead need to find out how much nitrate we are starting with in the tap (or other source) water and then go from there. In a well-maintained (meaning good weekly gravel-clean-water-changes) tank we might expect to see between 5 and 20 extra ppm above whatever the tap/source level is. As said, plants can eat up a significant amount of the NO3 if there are enough of them and if they're growing well. The plants would make the NO3 result be lower.
So for example, if coco had 10ppm of nitrate in the tap water to begin with, then 30ppm in the cycled aquarium would represent an excellent number, meaning that the tank was very clean. A similarly maintained tank that started with zero ppm nitrate in the tap water might only show 20ppm in the running tank. Of course the reason the running tank has more nitrate than the tap water is that the filter is working through the nitrogen cycle and converting all the ammonia (from fish waste etc.) into nitrite and then nitrate.
Coco, perhaps the above, plus what OM47 and RDD have written will all help you to understand it better? They are both even more knowledgeable than me about fishkeeping... I find their comments very trustworthy. We also may need some discussion, more discussion, about how difficult it is to get good nitrate readings because of the shaking and other things.
~~waterdrop~~