You must realize that people who kill themselves and others in the name of their religion is not what the particular religion preaches. The person has a very twisted and heavily contorted view of life, and their belief system. For instance, the Bible does not endorse murder, slavery, homosexuality, or other controversial subjects one might pose. So, when someone says they killed someone because God tells them so, they are basing that all the way back to their take on the Bible, or Torah ect. People love to take verses out of context and then use it for their personal use (crusades ect.). If you went to a modern church today (at least in the christian church) you will not find people sitting their re-reading verses ect. You will find upbeat music, dancing, and people on fire for God. Many people get upset because someone else tries to force their belief on them. I completely understand that. Anyone who does that is asking for trouble. There is a difference from sharing your belief and forcing it upon someone. But, I fully believe in sharing what you believe. Christians who really are worshippers of God, and not a easter sunday church goer will be more than willing to share his/her belief. Because we CARE. I would love to see everyone on fire for God, and everyone in heaven, but it's not realistic. Which is why forcing religion is not a good idea, as you will only scare the person away.
Kaivalagi : I am not trying to preach on here. I am clarifying the Christian religion as many people view church as a place you go to because it's required, and not because you want to. People easily get the wrong view of church because people it's easy to imagine a boring, Pious Christian. Clarification and preaching are two different things.