mike455555
i need to stop buying plants....
iv just got back from a beach party as well, was a good night, i dont really regret anything of it because it was fun and at time
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ncguppy830
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well i cant say i agree with the laws over there, glad to hear nothing bad happended.
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Bluesand1313
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Well.
There is one thing I kinda regret.
Kinda nervous to say it though.
I had fun otherwise though, I mainly just wandered around the house hugging a bunch of guys and clinging to furniture.
The friend that was supposed to look after me got piss-drunk so these two girls and this guy looked out for me instead.
The guy gave me a puke-bucket when I thought I might vomit, one girl made me drink water (I don't like water so that was quite a challenge), and the other girl tied my hair for me when I was leaning over the toilet sick to my stomach (didn't puke though, so that was good!) and she also walked me home.
There is one thing I kinda regret.
Kinda nervous to say it though.
I had fun otherwise though, I mainly just wandered around the house hugging a bunch of guys and clinging to furniture.
The friend that was supposed to look after me got piss-drunk so these two girls and this guy looked out for me instead.
The guy gave me a puke-bucket when I thought I might vomit, one girl made me drink water (I don't like water so that was quite a challenge), and the other girl tied my hair for me when I was leaning over the toilet sick to my stomach (didn't puke though, so that was good!) and she also walked me home.
ncguppy830
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oh still your friend though?
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Bluesand1313
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Yea, we had a good time together.
She called up her buddy and we laughed, then she fell on the floor and I laughed, then I tried to help her up and I fell on top of her and we rolled around on the floor laughing..
And then the host, my friend, came in and looked at us and left lol
Alright, I guess I'll say what I've been dreading, maybe you guys can help some how? I doubt it but eh.
I managed to get myself in a situation where some guy kissed me. >.>
That wasn't exactly what I imagined my first kiss being like, I kind of wish it didn't happen b/c I feel like my first kiss has been 'stolen' from me.
Does it count as a first kiss? B/c I was kinda drunk, so I like to think it didn't count.
She called up her buddy and we laughed, then she fell on the floor and I laughed, then I tried to help her up and I fell on top of her and we rolled around on the floor laughing..
And then the host, my friend, came in and looked at us and left lol
Alright, I guess I'll say what I've been dreading, maybe you guys can help some how? I doubt it but eh.
I managed to get myself in a situation where some guy kissed me. >.>
That wasn't exactly what I imagined my first kiss being like, I kind of wish it didn't happen b/c I feel like my first kiss has been 'stolen' from me.
Does it count as a first kiss? B/c I was kinda drunk, so I like to think it didn't count.
ncguppy830
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im a dude so ...well i have no clue..
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Bluesand1313
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LOL
I'll wait for another answer then xD
I'll wait for another answer then xD
Meeresstille
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OK Bluesand, I hate to be the voice of reason here, if you run someone over with a car while intoxicated does it still count as you having run someone over?
You've let yourself get into a situation for which you weren't ready, with the support of your mother. Sorry guys, I don't see this as being the same as learning to use alcohol responsibly while young, for that it is way too late.
I grew up in Germany, all my family is still there, I was allowed to grow up learning about the responsible, as well as irresponsible use of alcohol from the time I was a small child. Raising my children here in North America I allowed this in our home as well, they were not suddenly given permission at around 16 yrs to drink unsupervised at a party.
Oh, yes, I have blundered too, my children have as well, but you were asking for help how to go about this without blundering, and threw caution in the wind. You are lucky it was only a kiss that was stolen!
The reason I am so harsh right now is to hopefully help you not to repeat the danger you've put yourself in. The reason I am so harsh right now is because I have been called, in the middle of the night, out of my bed, to go and pick up one of my children's 17 year old female friends, who had just been raped at a party....by SOMEONE SHE KNEW AND TRUSTED! She was too ashamed to call her own mother, bless her heart, and I ended up making phone calls to the hospital at one in the morning. They called a social worker while we made our trip there! I waited with her until the social worker arrived, it was saddening, maddening and made me feel so inadequate sitting there with this wounded girl whom I had known since she was in Kindergarden!
I think you cheated yourself, Bluesand, it was a mistake, you can maybe put this kiss in a different category, and give yourself the chance to experience the next kiss the way you wanted to in the first place!
I'll go eat worms now!
You've let yourself get into a situation for which you weren't ready, with the support of your mother. Sorry guys, I don't see this as being the same as learning to use alcohol responsibly while young, for that it is way too late.
I grew up in Germany, all my family is still there, I was allowed to grow up learning about the responsible, as well as irresponsible use of alcohol from the time I was a small child. Raising my children here in North America I allowed this in our home as well, they were not suddenly given permission at around 16 yrs to drink unsupervised at a party.
Oh, yes, I have blundered too, my children have as well, but you were asking for help how to go about this without blundering, and threw caution in the wind. You are lucky it was only a kiss that was stolen!
The reason I am so harsh right now is to hopefully help you not to repeat the danger you've put yourself in. The reason I am so harsh right now is because I have been called, in the middle of the night, out of my bed, to go and pick up one of my children's 17 year old female friends, who had just been raped at a party....by SOMEONE SHE KNEW AND TRUSTED! She was too ashamed to call her own mother, bless her heart, and I ended up making phone calls to the hospital at one in the morning. They called a social worker while we made our trip there! I waited with her until the social worker arrived, it was saddening, maddening and made me feel so inadequate sitting there with this wounded girl whom I had known since she was in Kindergarden!
I think you cheated yourself, Bluesand, it was a mistake, you can maybe put this kiss in a different category, and give yourself the chance to experience the next kiss the way you wanted to in the first place!
I'll go eat worms now!
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Bluesand1313
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I've definitely learned, that's for sure.
The people that were at that party, I knew most of them for a good year.
If anything happened to me, they'd jump in a probably kill the person, even if they were drunk.
I think I will put it into a different category, even if it's just to make me feel better
The people that were at that party, I knew most of them for a good year.
If anything happened to me, they'd jump in a probably kill the person, even if they were drunk.
I think I will put it into a different category, even if it's just to make me feel better
mike455555
i need to stop buying plants....
i wouldent worry to much about your first kiss being stollen, youv got a lot more firsts to do ahead of you, and my first kiss was in spin the bottle. and i kinda dident count that, but my second was a really bad kiss (when it wasent a game) and well im keeping my first as my first
TallTree01
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Hehe, I feel kinda bad with a beer in my left hand and my keyboard in my right. 
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