I've never had a problem with a male/female pair of honeys. The male will chase the female but not to the point of stressing the female. The worst I've had is a female with a slightly nipped tail, which has healed up completely within a couple of days. I suppose it's possible my honeys were particularly peaceful, but I've had a few pairs over the years and none of the males harassed the females.
I have had problems with a trio with one female picking on the other. I had to take one female back.