Thank you Colin. I looked up the specific fish you mentioned as being good with plants and they are much too large. At least judging from the pictures on the internet. I really like the look of oscars. They have such cute faces. But there is a family (one male and 3 females) of midas fish at a lfs near me (not for sale) that I love to watch. The females pick up and relocate gravel, making little nests. The male comes and looks them and moves some gravel around himself. I believe they said he is a red devil midas hybrid and the females are red devils. They are much smaller than he is and have a bit of a different shape. He has the male nuchal hump on his head. They are all adorable and I could watch them for hours. They don't sell hybrids I don't believe. They took this one in as a surrender and they are keeping him.
At any rate, I just really find these larger fish to be so interesting and pleasurable to watch. I wouldn't have larger fish unless I could create a large environment for them, so that is something that I will research. I'm interested in sumps and auto-water change systems.
I've read that with many larger fish, I would need to hide much of the equipment because they tear it up. Also, I would need to anchor any larger decor so that they couldn't harm themselves when they decide to redecorate.
Floating plants is a good idea. Watersprite grows well. I've read that java fern can sometimes survive many of the usual plant destroyers and I've had good luck with that as well. I suppose I will have to research other types of environments without plants and decide if I can live with that aesthetic. I'm honestly not sure if I can, which of course will make me not a good fit for a larger fish, if I can't provide an environment that will make them happy.