Winterlily
Fish Crazy
Well, it's time to decide what fish are going into the 55 gallon. I just don't know enough of the fish out there, so hope you can help. I will probably only keep 1 or 2 types of fish, rather than a true community tank. I'd rather, I think, have a few bigger fish (or fish who will grow to bigger fish!), than a whole bunch of small ones. I would like, though, to have at least 4-6 fish in there. Anything that gets so big that I could only have 1 or 2 won't work out so well.
Any suggestions for fish that might meet these "wants" ?
--I love the flat-bodied, round fish, like discus. But I know discus are really difficult to keep well - so definitely not for me at this point. But, that's the kind of "look" I like, if you see what I mean? I'm always drawn to fish like discus, silver dollars, even gold severum etc. Even like, on a smaller scale, the black- or white-skirt tetra type shape.
--I love different color variations so that if, for example, I had 6 fish of the same type in the tank, they might all look a bit different.
--Colorful is a huge plus. I know little about cichlids or all the various types, but this guy is just gorgeous - a bolivian Ram? See, that's why I need you guys to suggest types of fish!
--I won't be thrilled with aggressive fish that push each other around.
--I very much enjoy fish that have a "relationship" with their person - whether for food or not, will come right to the front when they see you, nibble on your finger when you put it in the tank, etc (maybe a piranha isn't for me...), really get to "know" you.
--The tank will be in my living room and I have a 3 year old. I definitely don't want skittish fish that, when you go up to the tank, run and hide.
--A fish that requires a real experienced hand, like discus for example, won't be a good choice just yet.
--We have very hard water and a ph in the tap water of about 7.5. I suppose the ph could be messed with a bit by adding wood etc, but still, there it is.
Angelfish were on my list of possibilities, but now I'm reading that they like/need soft water and a far lower ph than we have. So not sure that's doable either.
But... perhaps you guys can suggest some others for me to consider?
Thanks!
Any suggestions for fish that might meet these "wants" ?
--I love the flat-bodied, round fish, like discus. But I know discus are really difficult to keep well - so definitely not for me at this point. But, that's the kind of "look" I like, if you see what I mean? I'm always drawn to fish like discus, silver dollars, even gold severum etc. Even like, on a smaller scale, the black- or white-skirt tetra type shape.
--I love different color variations so that if, for example, I had 6 fish of the same type in the tank, they might all look a bit different.
--Colorful is a huge plus. I know little about cichlids or all the various types, but this guy is just gorgeous - a bolivian Ram? See, that's why I need you guys to suggest types of fish!
--I won't be thrilled with aggressive fish that push each other around.
--I very much enjoy fish that have a "relationship" with their person - whether for food or not, will come right to the front when they see you, nibble on your finger when you put it in the tank, etc (maybe a piranha isn't for me...), really get to "know" you.
--The tank will be in my living room and I have a 3 year old. I definitely don't want skittish fish that, when you go up to the tank, run and hide.
--A fish that requires a real experienced hand, like discus for example, won't be a good choice just yet.
--We have very hard water and a ph in the tap water of about 7.5. I suppose the ph could be messed with a bit by adding wood etc, but still, there it is.
Angelfish were on my list of possibilities, but now I'm reading that they like/need soft water and a far lower ph than we have. So not sure that's doable either.
But... perhaps you guys can suggest some others for me to consider?
Thanks!

Its something to behold though as their colors are so striking. Cardinal and Neon colors (neons have a third, silver, color and a little less orange/red than cardinals) are notable because they will catch the eye of people who see your tank from across the room, before they even come up close to look.