I read that gouramis are peaceful? Also do you need to have a group of them?
"Peaceful" is a subjective term, but yes, compared to many other fish, gourami are generally peaceful. But they also are quite close to cichlids in behaviours, in that males are territorial, sometimes very strongly so, depending upon species. And another factor is where in the water column other fish live. Gourami tend to remain in the top half, sometimes the top third, of the water column. If you have male/female, they will inevitably spawn. The male can be very protective of eggs (which some species including the sparkling pygmy gourami place in a bubble nest at the surface in floating plants) and I have seen other surface or surfacing fish get nipped quite voraciously even by these little gourami.
Sometimes a group is best, sometimes a pair, sometimes a "harem" (one male and two or three females); it depends upon species. In the case of the sparkling pygmy gourami, if the tank has sufficient space, I would get a group of five or a few more. In a smaller tank, a trio with one male and two females works well; distinguishing male/female is not easy especially in juvenile fish. I have not had problems with just three or four fish, but only in a 20g or larger tank,
Byron.