Oh I'm sorry to hear the fishless cycle didn't work out smudger, now don't panic over doing a fish-in cycle. you know it's not our favourite choice but with the right care and attention you can mitigate the risks to some extent.
There's two things to consider and work on at the moment really, firstly your goal for water quality is to keep ammonia and nitrite below 0.25ppm. obviously lower is better, if you can get them down to 0 then do so, however just keep them below 0.25ppm by doing water changes, make the changes as big or as often as you need to achieve those water levels.
The second thing is with fish-in cycling it's definately a case of softly softly catchy monkey, the more mature a bacteria colony is the quicker is can reproduce and double itself. In a nice mature tank (around 6 months after cycling) the filter bacteria can double in 24 hrs meaning you can double the amount of fish in the tank without any serious problems (although this is pushing it a bit and not recommended!!). Now in an immature tank it takes much longer for the filter bacteria to reproduce so the less fish you add and the longer you go between additions the less work you'll have to do with water changes etc or less risk of a mini cycle.
So what you need to do now is this
1 - Monitor levels daily, water changes to keep ammonia and nitrite below 0.25ppm
2 - When ammonia and nitrite stay at 0 with no water changes go to a weekly pattern of one 30% water change
3 - When levels are holding steady leave it as long as you can bear before adding more fish, try for at least 2 weeks then when you do add fish add no more than one third of the current stock. So as you have 6 neons now you should look to add 2 more or 2 equivalent sized fish. Don't panic over group numbers you can build up and it won't do the fish any harm to be in a smaller group for a couple of weeks again.
Then just repeat these steps over and over until the tank is cycled, add a few fish, monitor the water and do water changes, when it holds steady wait a couple of weeks then add one third more fish than you currently have, monitor the water again and so on until the tank is stocked.
