I keep mine at 24 degrees celcius, which is the highest they should be at. Salinity wise, they are kept at 1.021. For the flow, i have the juwel filter going and a hydor koralia 1 both directed at the surface to increase oxygen levels and keep the pH up. You want half the flow of a reef tank basically.
For the feeding, frozen mysis should be their main diet. I chuck a couple of portions of river/ghost shrimp in every Sunday, which lasts a few days, and they can snack on it whenever they want.
Offer brine shrimp as a treat, it should not be their staple diet! It is better to enrichen the brine shrimp with liquids etc, as they have a low nutritional value.
Im 15 years old and dont fin them difficult at all! As long as you get captive bred ones, and you knwo they are already eating you should be fine

My pair started eating as soon as they were put in the tank, so i was lucky there!
You need alot of hitching posts for them, as thats what they do all day! Ideally you want something every 4 inches. Use stuff like tonga branch live rock, macroalgae, caulerpa, feather dusters etc.
I wouldnt keep one on its own as my two spend their time to gether, whether they are holding tails or on the same piece of tonga branch. I think pairs are the best thing. If you dont want babies then two of the same sex are fine, but you'll find most LFS etc sell them by one male and female for eg £110
They are quiet easy to come by here in the UK, not sure about the USA..?
Any more info, im glad to help! Ill post a pic of their home when i get back from holiday (going today)...my mums staying home so shes feeeding them every other day...and i think my male is pregnant!
Have a read through my journal in my signature...even though i havent updated it in ages!
Read through this profile too, and you cna see my pair there too
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