Hi all, I really need some help!!, I am new to the forum and new to keeping a "real" fish tank (i was previously able to keep a betta in a bowl alive for years followed by a fancy goldfish in a simple little tank for a few more years until hubby accidentally killed him- don't ask lol) So now I get this great 55 gallon tank and base from a friend for cheap and did lots of reading and research on starter tanks, etc. I dropped a few hundred dollars at a local reputable aquatic store for the gravel, plastic plants, fake rocks, an aquaclear 70 filter, heater, etc. I cycled the tanks for two months with the biostart and prime before adding any fish. I tested the water several times during that time and the pH did come up a little high, 7.6, but it matched the pH of our tap water and the guy at the store said if I start with a fish ok with alkaline water, it should go down over timewith waste, etc. so I started with five platies, and they started off pretty well, I even had two fry (survive). I did water changes (~20%) every two-three weeks with prime added to buckets of water filled from the tub after siphoning out the gravel and letting it sit out for some time. I keep the temp around 76 deg. I lostone fish and brought my water in to be tested. It was still alkalotic, so i got something to drop the pH. I added it as directed every couple days until i went through about half the container (supposed to treat 700 gallons!) and it was still reading 7.6! (testing everyday)
At that point a friend was moving and had to get rid of four random fish, including a couple tetras and a pleco. I hadnt lost another fish in awhile so i thought I'd give it a shot, and again all was good for awhile. Then I started losing fish more rapidly. The fish doing the circles of death for a few days before i could put it out of its misery with clove oil. I saw no signs of ich or bacteria, growths or anything. I lost all but two platies plus the two babies, which the fish store guys said could be more resilient bc they grew up in that environment. Once all seemed stable for a few weeks, I chanced it with four more platies and four danios. The pH never reading below 7.6. Well that didn't go well at all and i am losing fish almost daily. I finally got a high range pH kit when i realized that 7.6 could mean over 7.6 and it read 8! So I took everything out of the tank (plants and decor) bc I cannot figure out why its so high and resistant to that stuff i am still putting in to try to drop it! I change ~20% of the water as often as I can- at least once a week- (not too easy bc I am 8 months pregnant, hubby has little to no interest and the tub is two flights up!) so now what?? I am losing one of the babies now and partly want to scrap the whole tank and start over. Could it be something in the gravel? Would sand be better? What do I do with the fish I have if I do want to try to dump the whole thing? I am so upset and feel terrible for the fish I have in there! Could it be something in the food? I have a standard recommended flake food. Please help!!
At that point a friend was moving and had to get rid of four random fish, including a couple tetras and a pleco. I hadnt lost another fish in awhile so i thought I'd give it a shot, and again all was good for awhile. Then I started losing fish more rapidly. The fish doing the circles of death for a few days before i could put it out of its misery with clove oil. I saw no signs of ich or bacteria, growths or anything. I lost all but two platies plus the two babies, which the fish store guys said could be more resilient bc they grew up in that environment. Once all seemed stable for a few weeks, I chanced it with four more platies and four danios. The pH never reading below 7.6. Well that didn't go well at all and i am losing fish almost daily. I finally got a high range pH kit when i realized that 7.6 could mean over 7.6 and it read 8! So I took everything out of the tank (plants and decor) bc I cannot figure out why its so high and resistant to that stuff i am still putting in to try to drop it! I change ~20% of the water as often as I can- at least once a week- (not too easy bc I am 8 months pregnant, hubby has little to no interest and the tub is two flights up!) so now what?? I am losing one of the babies now and partly want to scrap the whole tank and start over. Could it be something in the gravel? Would sand be better? What do I do with the fish I have if I do want to try to dump the whole thing? I am so upset and feel terrible for the fish I have in there! Could it be something in the food? I have a standard recommended flake food. Please help!!