Whilst this is definitely an emergency with fish deaths happening I think the cause needs to be found rather than assumptions on old myths being followed.
Its another age old myth r.e. the problem of anaerobic substrates. Something we often get in planted forums where people argue about sand compaction starving oxygen from plant roots.
The reality is that in a non planted tank and a planted tank this is not an issue at all.
The '3 people who 'say' this has happened have read incorrect factual info and therefore correlate that with their experience.
When you get this gas buildup in the substrate it is hydrogen sulphide which is most definitely poisonous however the minute it comes into contact with oxygen it turns to Sulphur Oxides which are harmless. They still smell but not harmless. I doubt this would cause enough smell to 'stink out the house' as per the OPs experience so I would be looking somewhere else for the causes of death.
I wouldn't think in a gravel bed it would be a problem in the slightest. Its more an issue relating to fine particle substrates like playsand etc.
As for the evidence you speak of it is pretty hard to provide solid evidence to the contrary however I can give you credible sources to negate any fears over this issue.
http://www.fishforums.net/index.php...te-gas-pockets/page__p__1758205&#entry1758205
http://www.fishforums.net/index.php?/topic/267193-gas-in-sand/
I know you are not planted but another myth on the subject of anaerobic substrates/compaction rather than the gas buildup but also in line with the subject in question is where some people try and say that compaction starves the roots of oxygen. Often suggesting products to alleviate the issue. However when there is money to be made then the myth will be fueled by those who can line their pockets.
In reality plants roots are like tubes of oxygen inside the substrate and far from being starved of oxygen they carry oxygen into the substrate. They do not need circulation etc.
Here's some subject matter on that:
http://www.aquascapingworld.com/forum/substrate/726-do-you-use-power-sand-together-aqua-soil.html
I'm not posting to have an argument on this issue nor is it a personal attack or ego trip. The threads above are there for all to read and you can make your own decisions. I just think it will help the OP and the problem the OP has to be able to dismiss this problem as the cause and try and find out what the real cause is. Better than chasing an assumption and consequently stop searching for other answers IMO
There may be something else that has happened at the same time or even caused by it. I have no doubt that those who say they got the smell and then the deaths happened are true and it may be the process that caused the deaths but it is important to correct any statements r.e. the Sulfides were the killer. A by product? Possibly?
Its not enough to say show me some evidence on any subject and then suggest that several people have said xxx. We've said it a million times before If a million people have a problem with something yet 1 with the same 'something' doesn't that is enough to falsify the theory. That is science. Then we move on and re-examine the root cause.
I would suggest ammonia is much more than likely the culprit. Whatever disturbed the substrate to release the smell will have also released ammonia from the substrate. The water changes have helped dilute that and the OPs observations would suggest this too.
AC