Well then, certainly sounds as if you've made the efforts to solve the problem with water changes and its not been enough, so the use of baking soda (sodium bicarbonate) seems in order.
You understand the underlying guideline that its better to restrict this to fishless cycling and the hopefully once you get fish the acid effect will be enough less that once again water changes will be enough and you will not have to resort to artificially raising pH, and that if you did so, crushed coral or limestone chips would be more recommended than baking sode, right?
So I'm assuming this is your 60L and you're still fishless cycling with some plants, right? Thinking out loud, I always work from the observation that a teaspoon of baking soda will generally raise KH by about 4 german degrees without reaching the point of raising pH in a 50L tank (useful to know, but of course we want more here.) So I'd go for a nice tablespoon (equal to 3 teaspoons) in your 60L as a nice safe starting point and see how things go with that.
You can sit back and just watch how pH and time change from this action or you could consider getting your hands on a liquid KH kit (or of course liquid KH/GH kit) and that would allow you to see much more clearly how the two graph curves of KH and pH operate in relation to each other when you use bicarb.
Give us plenty of clear feedback data.
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ps. personally I like to do a large water change and then dose the baking soda and recharge the ammonia to 5ppm right after the fresh water has gone in