R/O is reverse osmosis. It's where water gets pushed through filters that remove minerals and chemicals from the water.
If you have hard water and want to keep soft water fishes, either use a reverse osmosis unit or get distilled water or rainwater and mix it 50/50 (maybe 60/40) with the tap water to reduce the pH and hardness.
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SOLAR STILL
In warm climates you can make a solar still to get pure water. It would give you pure water, no waste water (r/o units create a lot of waste water) and be free to make pure water, it just requires a bit of sunlight.
Get a large plastic storage container and put it outside in the sun.
Pour a bucket of water into the storage container.
Put a clean bucket in the middle of the storage container. Have a clean, non-porous rock in the bucket to stop it floating around.
Put the lid on the storage container.
Put a rock or small weight on the lid in the middle, so the lid sags above the bucket.
As the sun heats up the container, water will evaporate and condense on the underside of the lid. The water will run towards the centre and drip into the bucket. When the bucket is full of water, you put it into a holding container and put the bucket back in the storage container with another bucket of tap water.
You get pure water with a pH of 7.0, 0 GH, 0KH and no wasted water, no power used and it's cheap to set up.