DavidYazel
Mostly New Member
Hi everyone. I have been reading forums and talking to fish people a lot in the last year, but I have never joined a fish forum. I have a long and sad story about my fish attempts, not sure if its worth writing about. My wife thinks I am obsessed, my daughters think I am basically a sadistic fish killer at this point. They all want me to give up. I am starting to feel the same way.
Here is the funny thing. I know so many people with fish tanks. Friends, relatives, co-workers. They walked into Pet Smart and walked out with tanks and fish. Do their fish die? nope. Do they know about the nitrogen cycle, water changes, filtration, temperature, Ph, chlorine, disease... nope. They just throw the fish in the tank and feed it every day and everything is fine. I admit I am a little jealous and bitter about that. Seems so unfair. One co-worker thinks I am insane to go to the very great lengths and work I have gone through with my fish. He very happily points out he never does anything with his fish except feed them.
I have spent a year on this project. Gone through 2 fish tanks, spent hundreds of dollars trying to host $1 guppies, tetras, mollys and platys. I have probably killed 50 fish in the last 6 months alone.
Anyway. I signed up because over the last 48 hours all my fish died again (this time to Ich) and I am wondering if I should hang it all up. I mentioned getting a quarantine tank to help with fish disease transmission and my wife basically told me she will leave me if I do that (I'm mostly kidding).
So that is my intro. I should probably get into specifics in the right sub-forums rather than my introduction post.
Here is the funny thing. I know so many people with fish tanks. Friends, relatives, co-workers. They walked into Pet Smart and walked out with tanks and fish. Do their fish die? nope. Do they know about the nitrogen cycle, water changes, filtration, temperature, Ph, chlorine, disease... nope. They just throw the fish in the tank and feed it every day and everything is fine. I admit I am a little jealous and bitter about that. Seems so unfair. One co-worker thinks I am insane to go to the very great lengths and work I have gone through with my fish. He very happily points out he never does anything with his fish except feed them.
I have spent a year on this project. Gone through 2 fish tanks, spent hundreds of dollars trying to host $1 guppies, tetras, mollys and platys. I have probably killed 50 fish in the last 6 months alone.
Anyway. I signed up because over the last 48 hours all my fish died again (this time to Ich) and I am wondering if I should hang it all up. I mentioned getting a quarantine tank to help with fish disease transmission and my wife basically told me she will leave me if I do that (I'm mostly kidding).
So that is my intro. I should probably get into specifics in the right sub-forums rather than my introduction post.