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This post contains some disheartening information. If you're sensitive read at your own discretion.
Shortly after I set up my aquarium in November 2024, my wife came home from work and told me her coworker, Brad, had recently set up an aquarium. I told her to have him text me or call me if he needed any help or had any questions. Brad did. We became friends talking about fish and aquariums. I was actually quite impressed. Clearly the guy had done A LOT of research. He was asking questions beyond beginner level. Things like knowing his aquasoil softened his water he was wondering if he had enough Ca/Mg for his plants. That's not something a new aquarist ponders.
I had Brad over a few times to talk fish. We would occasionally exchange plant trimmings if we had extra. Brad took a work trip to Nashville, TN for a work conference and he sent me like a hundred photos from a LFS he visited in Nashville. He even asked if I wanted to him to buy anything while he was there and he would bring it back home for me. That's a good fish friend right there.
Like I said previously my wife and Brad work together for the county's health department. They deal with people with substance abuse issues or mental health issues. It's tough work, and to be honest my wife is pretty amazing at it. Today is only Thursday, but already this week she's gotten 3 people with substance abuse placed in treatment. I cannot fathom how many lives they have saved.
Brad is a reformed addict. So it's very personal work for him. He wants to help everyone.
One random day this past April Brad's demons got the best of him. He went to work and checked in at 8am as usual. For a reason he only knows, he left work about 8:10, drove 5 minutes to the New River Gorge Bridge and decided to end his life.
Now I value all of you as fish friends as well. I want to tell you all, we all have good days and bad days. But if something's wrong, if you don't feel right, please please talk to someone. I assure you it's not that bad that it can't be figured out. Pay attention to your mental health. It's just as important as any other aspect of your health.
Now for the good part.
I came up with the idea for a tribute of sorts for Brad. With the blessing of his family, and the county health department, I have obtained permission to get Brad's aquarium and relocate it to the waiting room of the county health department office. The health department has agreed to spring for a plaque to place above the aquarium in memoriam and I will volunteer my time to maintain this aquarium.
The aquarium itself is a Fluval Flex 32.5. Which is an all in one, 32.5 gallon aquarium. It comes with a Fluval Aquasky 2.0 light, a heater of some sort, some aquasoil as substrate as substrate and I'm not sure what else as it's been months since I've seen the aquarium. No one has maintained the aquarium since April, so I'm not sure what shape the plants or fish are in.
Last I heard there were some Corydoras and a single large angelfish as inhabitants.
I've looked into the Fluval Flex, downloaded the manual from the Fluval website, watched some YouTube videos, but I have zero experience with this so if anyone has some knowledge or tips for the Fluval Flex, please let me know.
I'm also a little undecided on what to do with it. Do I just put in a bunch of community fish for the color and activity or should I do something a little more special like a biotope set up? I'm not one to ever ask "what should I put in my tank?" But I'm undecided and open to suggestions.
Thanks for getting this far in the post and I love you all.







