I'm an oldie, so am not really that keen on the Abrams take. yes it does get rid of the "politicla correctness" of TNG (and, to an extent, TOS) but that correctness was the whole point of all the series, up to now.
indeed it was the basic premmis for "Great Bird's" idea.
this said into darkness was a really great film, but falls only second on my star trek films list:
1, Undescovered Country.
2, Into Darkness
3, First Contact
4, Rath Of Kahn
5, Insurrection
6, Abrams Star Trek
I like to view the films like Great Bird did, as apocryphal, as opposed to being a direct part of the Star Trek world.