Im Upset

[GAB99]

well, my life sucks, simple as that.

 

[chrisbassist]

well, straight to the point aren't you?

trust me, everyone feels that way at some point in their life. I have several times, after my family splitting up, when I was made homeless and lived out of my car, when my mum died of cancer and I was left to deal with my older brothers depression...

life has its ups and downs, and pretty soon, you'll be on the way up again, so don't worry too much. besides, no matter how bad it gets, there's always someone out there worse off.

 

[simonas]

Chris has got it spot on there

I;ve no idea of your age but I am with lots of people all the time who are at a low ebb, depressed, suicidal etc and it makes me so sad if they do something daft. Maybe be I;m getting old but at 34 I feel like things can only get better and some people don;t get to see betond whatever brings them down

trust me, if things are poo they can only get better!!!

hope you are ok and if you want to talk just pm me

simon

 

[chrisbassist]

Chris has got it spot on there

that makes a change!

do take up simonas' offer though if you need to. I would offer myself, but i can be fairly blunt, so dependant on the person i'm talking to, i'm not always the best person to speak to.

 

[simonas]

Chris has got it spot on there

that makes a change!

do take up simonas' offer though if you need to. I would offer myself, but i can be fairly blunt, so dependant on the person i'm talking to, i'm not always the best person to speak to.

I;ve represented people for 8 years so am well used to all kinds of situations and problems lol one of my clients who calls me non stop says Ipm his annadin as I sort his headaches lol

 

[GAB99]

wellby the end of this week life should be back to normal which im not happy about because normal is not good

well, straight to the point aren't you?

trust me, everyone feels that way at some point in their life. I have several times, after my family splitting up, when I was made homeless and lived out of my car, when my mum died of cancer and I was left to deal with my older brothers depression...

life has its ups and downs, and pretty soon, you'll be on the way up again, so don't worry too much. besides, no matter how bad it gets, there's always someone out there worse off.

im 15 and right now noone else i know of thats my age has my issues or anything worse going on (not counting tff because i know a few hereand they are older than me)
and at school i have to put on a fake happy quirky personaltiy even though im depressed as ****.

but at least i dont let it interfer with oter stuff i do like my other posts on here, but it really ticks me off that i cant even bother to tell anyone because of what has happened in the past, i have been betrayed too much which is why i only leak certain info and not even people i consider friends (if i can call them that at all) i trust wholeheartedley.

 

[steelhealr]

Have you spoken with counselors at school? SH

 

[GAB99]

Have you spoken with counselors at school? SH

well, at my old school in georgia i did because it was much worse over there than back here in california, which brings up another thing is that im moving back there and i hated it and the stress of moving as well.anyway, yes i did and even then i didt really open up about anything except i had trouble making friends (still do) and this one kid (in particular, but there were much more than 1) said something really mean to me imo at the time, the was about the last time i cried which was 5 years ago soon to be 6. im not bullied or any thing (well, i guess i am but i dont classify it as bullying) its just other stuff.

actually i do recall talking to her once but that was about a class issue so it doesnt count.

 

[steelhealr]

Moving is stressful...for everyone, whether you are 15 or 50. Ya know, sometimes, you don't need a whole lot of friends. Sometimes, one or two close ones are all you need. This is a tough time for kids at this stage. Keep your head up. As my coach told me, be proud of everything you are and everything you believe in.

Besides...bet there aren't that many kids out there who can keep fish like you do.

SH

 

[chrisbassist]

I know how you feel.

I grew ina great village, then my family split up, and a complete idiot came in to marry my mum, we moved miles away from all my friends. Never made too many friends at the new school. Hated it. Then we moved again (so my little sister could get a pony, while I have no money...) never found any friends in that new plaace at all, then my work screwed up my pay so my step dad kicked me out because I couldn't pay him rent.


The problem is that your feelings aren't being taken into account.

Plus you probably do know other people who are feeling similar ways, you just don't know it.

 

[GAB99]

Moving is stressful...for everyone, whether you are 15 or 50. Ya know, sometimes, you don't need a whole lot of friends. Sometimes, one or two close ones are all you need. This is a tough time for kids at this stage. Keep your head up. As my coach told me, be proud of everything you are and everything you believe in.

Besides...bet there aren't that many kids out there who can keep fish like you do.

SH

yep, i definaltely know moving is stressful, because not only ami stressed, but y parents let their frustration out on me which is really annoying especially when im yelled at from morning to midnight at my house. and i only have 2 ish friends who 1 i only see at lunch only and the other at tennis class only, other than that everyone else who are what i want to call friends (we are both nice to eachother most of the time) simply ignore me

I know how you feel.

I grew ina great village, then my family split up, and a complete idiot came in to marry my mum, we moved miles away from all my friends. Never made too many friends at the new school. Hated it. Then we moved again (so my little sister could get a pony, while I have no money...) never found any friends in that new plaace at all, then my work screwed up my pay so my step dad kicked me out because I couldn't pay him rent.


The problem is that your feelings aren't being taken into account.

Plus you probably do know other people who are feeling similar ways, you just don't know it.

how can i take them into account?

 

[demasonisrule]

I'm 13 and I was in the same boat until I realized, what the hell am I doing, my life actually is pretty great and that was it. Just try not to think of all the crap that's getting you down, and stay occupied. I used to just ride my bike around in circles for hours at a time, and that worked wonders.

And how do you know everyone isn't just putting on a fake happy mood, like you are?

 

[FWFishLover]

Im Also 13, and i just realized not too long ago that i'm not the most miserable kid in the world. in fact probably 70% of kids (definitely NOT including you) have it worse.

i think at our age we just take everything way too seriously and don't realize that were just acting like stupid teenagers lol

 

[GAB99]

well yesterday my mom flushed my poor inoccent little oto down the toilet for something i did and now i have to go to therapy cuz they think im nuts

 

[simonas]

well yesterday my mom flushed my poor inoccent little oto down the toilet for something i did and now i have to go to therapy cuz they think im nuts

your mum did that out of spite? now thats nuts!!