I didn't kill it, I put it in the wood shed yesterday as i couldn't be bothered to catch more flies for it, although I offered to post it to people mates etc for a laugh!!
It was actually probabl the best 2 days of it's life as it didn't have any risk of being eten and it had food when it wanted it.
I won't handle spiders with my hands simple because I'm not keen on them.
I agree with atomzero they should stay outside where there wanted and out of our way. On my paper round a walk into so many webs across the paths, and I don't think anyone enjoys web in the face!