I agree. You received some very inaccurate advice from that store. Even with plants, you are going to have issues increasing. I would even go so far as to suggest that before many weeks have passed, and assuming all four are males, you will likely only have one male, this one having killed the others.
"Opaline" is one of several varieties of the species Trichogaster trichopterus. This species is the Blue Gourami, Gold Gourami, Three-Spot Gourami, Opaline Gourami, Cosby Gourami, and probably several others. Males are very territorial, and attain close to six inches, which is not small. I would return all four, and look for more suitable fish. You could keep one, but at its large size and given its unpredictable behaviour (individual fish can vary, but often they can be quite feisty and nasty) you will have trouble finding tankmates.
Byron.