I have some really beautiful fish here. In that, I'm like all the other aquarists here who have built up their fish set ups slowly, with reading, research and a few good fish finding quests. My quests have taken me into Africa, and I've had the health and ability to follow up there. My mortgage is paid off, I'm retired, I am happy to drive old cars, and my general lifestyle has always been frugal. I don't gamble, do drugs, pay churches, eat out a lot, and act as a loyal consumer. I'd get no pleasure from that. I do buy music, read books and seek fish that interest me.
My wife and I love travel and are busy spending our savings on that. We won't live forever and until the wheels fall off, we're going for it. She doesn't do the fish trips, but we hit museums, archaeological sites and old cities together. Travel is an ultimate introductory education, and I am not educated enough yet. I never will be.
What I find interesting in fish involves their backstories. Beautiful or not, they feed into a fascination I've had for most of my life - evolution and species distribution. How do these fish live? What do their shapes offer as clues? Why does what they are happen? How do they survive? How do they fit with the other creatures and things in their habitats? What's their story?
What's interesting to each of us matters here. I can enjoy a fish with very little colour. But I can't enjoy a fancy Betta splendens anymore, as an example. How they act is a result of human choices in handicapping them with enormous, beautiful fins. I see the beauty, but not the active fish I did when I had wild caught Bettas. They were brown fish with a tiny bit of red, but they were wild things - tiny predatory rockets. I am a nature nerd. There's no escaping it, so I dive in head first.
I like pretty, colourful fish, for sure. But I don't see them as ornamentals, and that makes me a bad contest guy. The contests are good for the forum, and I vote in all the fish based ones, but I've only participated a couple of times. People visit my fishroom and go "meh", politely. I don't have the technicolour set ups of a good aquarium store, but weed choked tanks and shy, tiny fish. Inceasinlgy, I know their stories and can bore you out of your brains if you make the mistake of asking...
But grey fish win no contests.